Life Is What You Make It

Have you ever wonder what life is??

Life is full of desires. It's a race where all of us chase after our dreams,goals and ultimately desires.Even after reaching them we feel something missing in our hearts and again start chasing after them without thinking what exactly we want. 

What would be the ultimate desire in life?

Hope I have an answer for this.

Our only desire in life is ultimately to be happy.Then what's the use of the unwanted and unnecessary ego's and jealous that many of us possess.Life seems to be so short for those going after such things wasting their time and missing so many amazing things.While Life seems to be so long for those who enjoy it by being happy and making others happy.

And don't ever forget the saying:

                                                   Yesterday is history,
                                                 tomorrow is a mystery
                                                    and today is a gift
                                          that's why it is called the present !!!

Our life is in our own hand and it depends on how we make it up.

One of the nice things about a vacation is being able to take lovely things home,for the one's you love... :) 

"It might sound difficult but not impossible".It's this spirit that you need to keep in mind so as to overcome the obstacles in life. 

time for a quote

I am the one whom I love the most in my life............

How To Get Over Being Shy

What is shyness?

Shyness is obviously fear of unpleasant feelings disguised by minds under certain circumstances. 

                   It generally occurs due to lack of confidence.when you feel shy , you are indirectly allowing the people to behave as they wanted on you. Shyness does no benefit for u,but instead it your opportunities and cultivates other harmful personal qualities.

                  There's a simple technique to overcome this.It just manners the way you take it.

           Replace this "others may laugh or make fun of me if i talk like this" by "even if someone feels there's something funny in my attempts to get acquainted, so what?"

       It may somehow sound difficult for you .But in spite of internal resistance in you , if you can still act contrary with your shyness, you would experience two pleasant feelings in you.

             First one is relief and the other is consciousness of controlling yourself.    

CRITICISM- A Good Impact

Have u ever prone to criticism?Feeling worried of being criticized?Does other people's attitude intrude on your peace of mind?

Here is a quick and simple solution for those  facing such problems.The only thing that u need to do is to just 'Accept it'.Whatever may be the case,you just do this.Endure criticism and pointless comments on you .Then take over a look and try to judge one by one your self.

Doing this help you to understand yourself in a better way and to correct any flaws in you.Instead of taking criticism as a burden,accept it as an inspiration , to see better versions of yourself.Be willing to face the challenge if there is to be any improvement.Of course, it's not always easy to one's lifestyle ,habits, behaviour etc. However , change is inevitable,if there is to be any progress.

It's always best to accept them and to find honest solutions for a better progress and improvement. 

Does RTI mean anything to him ?

Ask any of the students ,faculty,staff or alumni , Tikka is one of the most prominent places in IIT , Kharagpur.......... 

           There is a sense of antiquity to the famous eatery on the campus.Dosa is still available at Rs.20 a piece and bhada chai costs an exiguous Rs.7 . Life is slow-paced in West Bengal , slower in Kharagpur and quite close to standstill in that old,ram-shackle shop at TIKKA . The wooden benches have weathered all heat and rain for years.The plastic chairs have broken but they continue to exist at the very same place.A Kendriya Vidyalaya stands on the IIT campus just  opposite to TIKKA.

            Mornings at TIKKA can be an eerie juxtaposition of three parallel worlds. Faculty members of the prestigious institute can be seen reading newspaper while sipping tea.They discuss their homes ,departments, head of  departments , the institute ad the nation.On the table a bit far away,are students ,on their way to classes or on their way back from the Tata sports Complex after a morning session of football,enjoying puri sabzi  and rasagullas.They talk about their halls , GC's(general champions) ,fests,mass bunks and so on. The second world belongs to students of the kendriya vidyalaya.Girls in their blue and white uniforms,their hair well-oiled , combed and exhibiting an assortment of multi-coloured ribbons,riding bicycle to school.

               Come back to TIKKA to find the third world. A young body in ragged clothes ,tattered slippers and unkempt hair holds four glasses of bada chai in each of his hands.All except the little finger inside the glasses at a slender distance away from the hot tea,which bubbles and probably touches those fingers and gets soiled on the way to the table of the faculty.The little finger is in the perpendicular direction ,quite poignantly,pointing to the kendriya vidyalaya.The tea glasses,all four touching one another at the center and slanting away from one another at the other end . Ask this kid ,  representing the metaphorical and actual Third world - a term coined by Alfred Sauvy , a member of the First World -   about the Right To Education Act 2009 and , I bet, he will be speechless............