Life Is What You Make It

Have you ever wonder what life is??

Life is full of desires. It's a race where all of us chase after our dreams,goals and ultimately desires.Even after reaching them we feel something missing in our hearts and again start chasing after them without thinking what exactly we want. 

What would be the ultimate desire in life?

Hope I have an answer for this.

Our only desire in life is ultimately to be happy.Then what's the use of the unwanted and unnecessary ego's and jealous that many of us possess.Life seems to be so short for those going after such things wasting their time and missing so many amazing things.While Life seems to be so long for those who enjoy it by being happy and making others happy.

And don't ever forget the saying:

                                                   Yesterday is history,
                                                 tomorrow is a mystery
                                                    and today is a gift
                                          that's why it is called the present !!!

Our life is in our own hand and it depends on how we make it up.

One of the nice things about a vacation is being able to take lovely things home,for the one's you love... :) 

"It might sound difficult but not impossible".It's this spirit that you need to keep in mind so as to overcome the obstacles in life. 

time for a quote

I am the one whom I love the most in my life............

How To Get Over Being Shy

What is shyness?

Shyness is obviously fear of unpleasant feelings disguised by minds under certain circumstances. 

                   It generally occurs due to lack of confidence.when you feel shy , you are indirectly allowing the people to behave as they wanted on you. Shyness does no benefit for u,but instead it your opportunities and cultivates other harmful personal qualities.

                  There's a simple technique to overcome this.It just manners the way you take it.

           Replace this "others may laugh or make fun of me if i talk like this" by "even if someone feels there's something funny in my attempts to get acquainted, so what?"

       It may somehow sound difficult for you .But in spite of internal resistance in you , if you can still act contrary with your shyness, you would experience two pleasant feelings in you.

             First one is relief and the other is consciousness of controlling yourself.    

CRITICISM- A Good Impact

Have u ever prone to criticism?Feeling worried of being criticized?Does other people's attitude intrude on your peace of mind?

Here is a quick and simple solution for those  facing such problems.The only thing that u need to do is to just 'Accept it'.Whatever may be the case,you just do this.Endure criticism and pointless comments on you .Then take over a look and try to judge one by one your self.

Doing this help you to understand yourself in a better way and to correct any flaws in you.Instead of taking criticism as a burden,accept it as an inspiration , to see better versions of yourself.Be willing to face the challenge if there is to be any improvement.Of course, it's not always easy to one's lifestyle ,habits, behaviour etc. However , change is inevitable,if there is to be any progress.

It's always best to accept them and to find honest solutions for a better progress and improvement.